What are some common Indicators of Interest?
How do girls show interest?
The readers have sent some more questions, and if you are a long-time reader of the blog yourself, then you know exactly what I mean by that ;)
Let’s assume that you are new around here, otherwise you already know everything I’m going to talk about in this post.
The first thing to mention when discussing the so-called “IOIs” is that a paradigm shift is urgently needed. Not that I want to rain on your parade, but this is an important clarification to make: if you ever catch a girl looking down and smiling upon seeing you, or if you ever catch a girl reactively fixing her hair upon seeing you, those cute little gestures have nothing to do with “interest” in the strict sense of the word, and everything to do with “attraction” instead.
If you don’t believe me, feel free to approach enough of those girls who have shown a so-called “IOI” upon seeing you, and check how many of them will thank you with the sweetest of the smiles for expressing your interest, only to then let you know that they are taken already. Ouch.
Eventually, after banging your head enough times on that specific annoyance, you too will develop a dedicated theorem on it.
Attraction is not a choice. What to do about it, that is the choice.
Hence, the required paradigm shift is the following:
Indicators of Interest ➔ Indicators of Attraction
And now for the good news: IOAs are great, they transmit you a lot of positive energy as the day goes by, and the act as a constant positive reinforcement of cool you are. And if you don’t get them on a consistent basis yet, the Fundamentals section is there to help you out.
All right, if you managed not to auto-reject after the paradigm shift – well done by the way – here is the link to the post where I list all of the IOAs I’m familiar with:
But that post is only part of the conversation, because different girls will react differently upon seeing you, based on what type of girl they are.
The IOAs shown in the above post are mainly displayed by Sweet Girls and Sweet Bitches, and by the Divas if you already know each other.
The very first time you and a Diva bump into each other instead, she will show attraction in her own overcompensating ways:
Lastly there are the Evil Bitches – shame on them – who will behave quite cringeworthily upon seeing an attractive and masculine guy:
A clear minority of girls will send you the hint to stay away and not to hit on them, and they have the right to do so, but then you have the right to deploy the Antidote on them:
And finally, since you came here to see how girls actively show interest, have a look at the Approach Invitations. I don’t like them, but YMMV.