I’m not taking a shot at you

I’m just expressing my view on the matter

Earlier on today, while I was writing the guide on Looks [1], I kept thinking of the “no affiliate links in here” post, and I felt compelled to add a couple of sentences in there to clarify an important point. Because here in the blog, as in my real life, I come on strong with my own opinions. Continue reading “I’m not taking a shot at you”

Happiness is only in the present moment

Common problems with visualization and future projections

This is the first of two posts I need to share with you before starting to write my advice on how to maximize the three pillars which support High Value (Looks, Vibe, Social Calibration). Let’s consider this scenario: it has been long time since you last did any kind of sport, and you have now decided to join a gym. This time around you are taking things seriously, and after two weeks of regular workout you start noticing little changes in your body already. It feels amazing, the results are showing already! And it can only get better! You get carried away and start projecting a future image of you, looking just like the jacked dude you saw on some advertisement. Continue reading “Happiness is only in the present moment”

Peripheral vision is mandatory

Playing the game on an equal footing

Imagine this: there is a waiting room with one single row of four seats aligned next to the wall, and a man is sitting down  _ M _ _ . A woman enters the room, greets the man out of politeness, and sits down to his right leaving one empty seat between them  _ M _ F . The man has noticed the woman is kind of hot. They both look at their phones for one minute, then the man has an urge to have another quick scan at the hot woman. He thinks she will not notice since she keeps looking at her phone, and he not-so-discretely turns his head around by 90 degrees: he loses, she wins. Continue reading “Peripheral vision is mandatory”