Common mistakes in Nightgame

If you have read my latest posts on nightgame, you have surely picked up on the fact that I’m not a hardcore nightgamer (better to say “was not” considering that I wrote nightgame off). When I was going out at night to meet girls, I was manly applying the daygame principles to nightgame: going out alone, frequenting venues that made it possible to talk to girls rather than shouting at them (bars instead of nightclubs), aiming at getting some solid phone numbers and meeting the girls again at a future date. Continue reading “Common mistakes in Nightgame”

Nightgame venue selection

When I went back into nightgame, the first month or so I kept going always to the same venue, and I was staying there all night. That venue looked similar to the ones I used to frequent when I was single a few years earlier, the only difference being that at the time I was going out with my cool group of friends, and now I had just arrived alone in a different Country. Continue reading “Nightgame venue selection”

My “secret” Nightgame openers

Two for the venues, one for the street

You have just entered a not-so-big cocktail bar. The lights are low, some catchy music is playing in the background, and there is a good vibe overall. Some people are standing up, sipping their drinks while talking to their friends, some are gathered around the high tables spread throughout the venue, and some more are sitting down on the sofas next to the walls. Continue reading “My “secret” Nightgame openers”