Category: Using your aura

Dear Diva,

I don’t know you personally, but I’ve met you countless times already. We have never interacted before, but I know your behaviour by heart. Continue reading “My letter to a Diva”

From a purely theoretical point of view, the traits making up a personality could be categorised across many different axes, with each axis having either a continuous distribution or a finite number of markers within it. Continue reading “Types of girls”

A few weeks back I was talking to an acquittance of mine, and he mentioned that he needed to go to the gym and cancel his membership. Continue reading “The 1-2-3 Method”

Let’s consider the gym, a typical location where Routine Circle Game is applicable. There is a typical weight room, where some guys and a few girls are working out, and this girl is one of them. Continue reading “The Law of Equilibrium of Interests”

Routine Circle Game is the ultimate test for your Social Calibration. And if you are wondering, I made up the name by myself to express a concept which I think doesn’t have an “official” definition in the community. Continue reading “Introducing Routine Circle Game”

It’s important to be consciously aware of what kind of game one guy is going for, in order to calibrate accordingly. The above table summarises, in my opinion, the differences across some key parameters between different types of Game. Continue reading “Comparing different types of Game”

If you have read my latest posts on nightgame, you have surely picked up on the fact that I’m not a hardcore nightgamer (better to say “was not” considering that I wrote nightgame off). Continue reading “Common mistakes in nightgame”

When I went back into nightgame, the first month or so I kept going always to the same place, and I was staying there all night. That place looked similar to the ones I used to frequent when I was single a few years earlier, the only difference being that at the time I was going out with my cool group of friends, and now I had just arrived alone in a different country. Continue reading “Nightgame venue selection”

You have just entered a not-so-big cocktail bar. The lights are low, some catchy music is playing in the background, and there is a good vibe overall. Some people are standing up, sipping their drinks while talking to their friends, some are gathered around the high tables spread throughout the venue, and some are sitting down on the sofas next to the walls. Continue reading “My “secret” nightgame openers”

When I went back into the dating market roughly 30 months ago, online dating and nightgame were my initial default options for meeting some new girls, and I’d say most guys tend to follow a similar pattern initially. Fact is, in terms of “barriers to approach” nightgame and especially online dating are much more forgiving compared to other types of Game. Continue reading “Nightgame “Quick Turnaround” Method”